Category: 1in4 Blog/Compassion/Depression/How to Help Others/Tom Wavre 4 in 4. Let’s be allies Posted On 28th June 2016 By iam1in42 Comments My husband has depression and I didn’t know for the longest time.That was hard to write, because while this isn’t about me, I can’t tell you how bad I feel for failing to support him enough in those first few lonely months.